Know Your Boundaries
October 3rd, 2006 | Michael Pink
When does a rabbit get into trouble? When he steps outside the boundaries of the briar bush and into the open field. We are often tempted to step outside of our boundaries into greener pastures too and that can be disastrous. We think we have planned well and assessed the risks, but if we are overstepping our bounds, we may well end up in a very tight spot indeed.
You see, I believe our boundaries are largely determined by our skills. If I were to try out for American Idol, I would make a fool of myself. I would be stepping outside my current boundaries and into the open field where I am fair game for whoever would take aim at me.
When we step out of our assigned boundaries, we get into trouble. What are your Strengths? Weaknesses? Limitations? While it is useful to shore up your weaknesses, you will get more mileage developing your strengths. The more time you spend in your strengths, the more productive you will be. And yes, I am aware that Paul said, “Most gladly therefore will I rather boast in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest upon me… for when I am weak, then am I strong.” So which is it?
Both.
Work with clients at a level commensurate with your skill. Keep honing those skills. At the same time, acknowledge your weaknesses and depend on the power of Christ to rest upon you that you might fulfill all that He has called you to do.
October 4th, 2006 at 8:55 am
Well said, Michael.
I’m glad you brought Paul’s quote into the posting. Certanly, we believe God has given us strengths and talents to be used in His Service. Naturally, then, we should focus on those areas for which we are best suited. However, I believe that God sometimes places us into situations that call for us to operate in an area of our weakness.. And, that could be a time of testing to see if we are willing to be surrendered in our Spirit so that HE can be the focus as HE operates through us. To HIM be all glory and honor!!
October 4th, 2006 at 9:30 am
For so long the Body has focused on weakness that we have forgotten that the Lord has given us both. We need to keep balanced our lives. Looking to glorify the Lord in whatever circumstance we find ourselves in. To often we forget we are King’s children and don’t live accordingly. Be blessed and be a blessing.
October 4th, 2006 at 12:35 pm
This is something I have been struggling with (boundaries), probably all of my life. I have been blessed to finally realize this now, but am having a great deal of difficulty determining what my strengths actually are. Any thoughts or direction on this?
October 7th, 2006 at 5:01 pm
Rick: There are many ways to identify your strengths. Most people can identify them but sometimes just need help in knowing how. In my profession, Career Counseling this is one of the first steps we take with clients. If you would like to talk about how this is done, feel free to send me an email. Blessings!